Letter to the Editor: True meaning of Kiss-In obscured

Pride Week designed to increase visibility of LGBTIQ community

I feel obliged to add to what wasn’t mentioned in Tuesday’s The University Daily Kansan article about the Queers and Allies Kiss-In. From an outsider’s perspective it could appear the sole objective was to be obnoxious and in-your-face. While this is one aspect of the kissing, it’s not why such things are done.

The idea behind the Kiss-In is to promote visibility of queer people on campus in a way that can’t be avoided by the general public. While many people don’t like public displays of affection from queer or straight people, the truth is, straight couples do not have to battle the same things couples in the queer community have to. It’s easy to say “get a room” or “gross” to straight couples showing their affection. Queer couples not only receive that but also face possible violence, hate and discrimination. The goal is to make you think about this and not to necessarily accept it.

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We don’t kiss to garner support for queer couples’ public displays of affection, but to provide a glimpse of our visibility and to bring awareness of the fear, oppression, hate, violence and discrimination that is all too common toward the queer community in general.

Pride Week is meant to be for everyone, not just the LGBTIQ — lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, intersex — community. This is the third year we’ve done the Kiss-In to kick off Pride Week. We leave the rest of the week to educational, social, entertaining and community building lectures and activities.

We all have differing opinions and many may not even support such blatant activities as the kiss-in. We don’t kiss to garner support for queer couples’ public displays of affection, but to provide a glimpse of our visibility and to bring awareness of the fear, oppression, hate, violence and discrimination that is all too common toward the queer community in general.

We hope you can join us the rest of the week for University and Lawrence Pride. For more info check out our Web site at www.kuqanda.org/pride.

Jonathan Pryor, Columbus senior and KU Queer and Allies president

 

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Comments

The real reason for the "kiss in" is to desensitize people to their innate aversion to homosexual behavior and thereby expand the recruitment base for those who practice said behavior.

"Recruitment base" That is priceless...what, do you think we have quotas we have to meet? Idiot.

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