Chambers: Learning from living alone

When my roommate moved back into her parents’ house last January, I was excited to live alone- and until the spring semester ended, living alone was everything I had hoped it would be. Because Lawrence was over-flowing with college students it never occurred to me how isolated I actually was and how dangerous living alone is.

Even though the apartment complex I was living in at the time did not have a security system, I hardly ever bothered to lock my door. Lawrence reminded me of the small town I used to live in and so I was too naïve to envision worst-case scenarios.

However, as the nation saw through Kelsey Smith’s abduction, there are people who are not as fortunate as me.

It’s embarrassing that it took Smith’s murder to force our community to give more thought to the dangers around us. But our shame should not stop us from learning from this tragedy.

As many know, Smith was forced into her own car by her murderer, in the day light, in the parking lot of the Target across the street from Oak Park Mall in Overland Park, Kan. Smith’s abduction was one of few cases in which someone who was physically able to fight back was kidnapped during the day, in a public place, in a good part of town.

All Targets have security cameras as well as a security guard who can usually be found standing inside of the building near the front doors during the stores’ business hours. Yet Smith fell through the cracks.

This problem applies more specifically to students at the University of Kansas than one might think at first glance.

Every time I have heard the question of security mentioned in conjunction with the University, the answer has always been more “blue lights.”

The blue lights, located on select blocks at the University, are activated by pushing a button on the lights’ poles. Then, said blue light sends a message to campus security who supposedly arrives lightning-fast to the area where the light was activated.

Regardless of the number of blue lights, it only takes a few seconds to murder or abduct someone. So having blue lights on every corner is not going to solve the problem.

I applaud Student Senate and others’ efforts to provide more security at the University. However, I think it’s more important to focus on how to individually protect ourselves.

Before leaving her home to go to Target, Smith told her parents and her boyfriend where she was headed. But, again, as we have now learned, alerting someone else of our whereabouts only helps in the aftermath of a situation.

When I am walking in Lawrence at night I talk, or pretend to talk, on my cell phone. While this is no more helpful than pushing a button on a blue light, it’s at least a free form of discouragement.

And as painful as this may sound, keep your iPod volume on LOW. Even in a group of people, it would be easy to sneak up on someone who has their music on high.

Create a plan of what you would do if danger did present itself while at home alone. As dumb as they seemed, the fire escape plans we used to learn before every bus ride would have saved our lives in case of an actual emergency. Most importantly, always carry the fear of abduction in the back of your mind when alone. If you are at least a little worried about abduction, you will be less reckless.

Chambers is a Paola sophomore in journalism and political science.

 

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I am happy that you realize that students need to take some responsibility for their own safety. However, I commend the college for the steps that they have taken. Students can help themselves by carrying personal safety products; pepper spray, personal alarms, etc. and utilizing portable door locks and alarms. There are so many items on the market that people don't know about. It is only fitting to educate yourselves about the choices that are available. Have an expert come speak to your residence hall, organization or a group of friends and learn how to use the products that are out there. This is my specialty and I am happy to help anyone who needs a resource. www.safetyandsecuritysource.com>

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