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By Niloofar Shahmohammadi

Thursday, March 8, 2007

I have a crush on the guy who sits next to me in class, but it turns out he’s engaged. If I’ve never even met the girl, does that really mean I have to respect their relationship? — Lisa, Junior

OK: Talking to him. Not OK: Everything else.

Now, truthfully, you wouldn’t be able to steal a man away from a woman he truly cared about. So you can flirt all you want, kiss him, ask him out, but if he’s into his lady, he’ll refuse you every time. But you’re being disrespectful if you do anything more than talk or flirt a little.

If he doesn’t pursue you, then you’re crossing the line. He doesn’t ask for your number? Well, then, don’t offer it.

Remember the Golden Rule: Treat others as you want to be treated. You wouldn’t want some little blonde coming at your boyfriend, so don’t do that to some innocent girl. If you want to get a taste of the destruction you could cause, rent The Last Kiss — you’ll think twice before doing anything. Besides, they never leave their fiancés anyway.

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I’m attracted to too many women... help! — Jake, sophomore

And you need help with this? You’re a sophomore in college surrounded by beautiful women — by all means, enjoy it. Casually date around and see what’s out there. You’ll learn a lot about women and have a lot of fun, too. Be good!

 

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