Monday, May 7, 2007
The liberating college experience — overflowing with occasions to party and drink excessively — is unfortunately a period in which sexual violence is frequent, particularly against women. According to a report by the Office of Justice Programs, 20-25 percent of women are raped during their time at college. Sexual violence is also one of the most underreported crimes. Many women, fearing social judgment and ostracism, don’t tell anyone about their experiences. Indeed, because the vast majority of sexual violence is committed by acquaintances and alcohol is often a factor, female victims are frequently fearful of reporting sexual violence to authorities and friends alike.
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Recognize that sexual violence happens, sometimes despite precautions, and is more common than one would like to think.
Thus the silent epidemic continues and is devastating both for its victims and for society. In few cases, it leads to suicide. More generally, it fuels hatred and distrust and creates unhealthy implications for future relationships. In recognition of the personal and societal devastation caused by sexual violence, students, especially in university settings, should take steps to prevent incidents and to support victims.
To stop sexual violence from occurring, create a buddy system at parties. Leaving someone behind because they’re too drunk to move is not a good idea. Inducing blackouts is, to put it lightly, never wise. In general, don’t drink excessively in strange environments.
Women, demand respect — don’t bother flirting with or even talking to men who degrade women with inappropriate jokes and comments. Remember that first dates should be in public locations. Also, “bad feelings” about a date should be taken seriously. If faced with unwanted sexual approaches, be disgusting. Belch, fart, pick your nose and become schizophrenically hysterical.
Men, be respectful — recognize the daily pressures women encounter to be “perfect” and avoid being one of these pressures. Don’t stand for “guy talk” that involves jokes about taking advantage of girls — they’re not funny. Remember that guys aren’t invincible and can be victims – yes, victims – of unwanted sex, too.
Through conversation, students can also dispel rape-related stereotypes. For example, rape usually doesn’t involve a horny stranger jumping out of a dark alleyway welding a knife. Often, perpetrators can be our own acquaintances. Furthermore, no girl “asks for it.” Women in revealing clothing may be asking for attention – unsurprisingly, since our sexist culture has taught women to get attention with their bodies – but they’re certainly not asking to be raped.
Lastly, recognize that sexual violence happens, sometimes despite precautions, and is more common than one would like to think. Be supportive of friends who have opened up about their experiences. For those who have not shared their experience, talk, at the very least, contact a university counselor. For the bolder individuals who have experienced sexual violence, speak out loudly to help inform and protect future generations of students.
Our precautions, support and outspokenness can help stop this silent epidemic.
— Alison Kieler for the editorial board
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Editorial: Sexual violence preventable
rape is a very serious crime. lying or overstating the actual number of instances just to make a more evocative article represents a very cavalier attitude. this author is so biased, it is not suprising that she chooses to misrepresent the facts. why she is still allowed to be published is unknown. The actual percentage of rapes is 6% http://www.ojp.usdoj.gov/bjs/pub/pdf/vvcs02.pdf
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