Bitch & Moan

I had sex with the guy I’ve been seeing for a few weeks for the first time last weekend. But he said he wanted me to pretend I was a lion and “roar” and do strange lion things during sex. do I have good reason to be freaked out, or am I overreacting? — Nicole, Junior

Nicole, if you really really loved him, this wouldn’t even be a question. How much do you like this guy? If you’re head over heels, then go buy yourself a lion costume and start roaring. If you don’t like him, then get the hell away from this beast. It could signify some sort of problem, but not necessarily a sexual one... it’s the fact that the first time, and after knowing you for only a few weeks, he would propose this Lion King sequel. Maybe he’s just being the bold and brave lion... or maybe he’s just socially inept. It’s up to you what you do here.

 

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Comments

To give you an opinion for the guy side (since this column lacks any male perspective whatsoever now), I would say that at least he’s being honest and upfront about you about his fetish. If you can see yourself with him because he’s a stand up guy, then you might want to indulge in his little fantasy. You two have been going out for several weeks now so it’s not like this is the first night you people hooked up and what not.

Here’s a thought, why not express some of your own fantasy and fetishes to see how he would react. A good test to see if he’s worth it is to see if he reciprocates. If not then he’s not worth it so DTMF (Dump the Motherf-cker).

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