Jayplay says...

"Do it" outside the box

Variety is, indeed, the spice of life. So why not try bringing a little variety to your bedroom romps?

Start off by testing out a few new moves and see where that takes you. If you’re drawing a blank in bed, there are numerous books and calendars that are sure to inspire you. Try the Sex: Every Day in Every Way position-of-the-day calendar from www. nerve.com. Each day comes complete with a new and inventive position, an illustration and even how many calories each participant can expect to burn. And lucky you: it’s already February, so it looks like you’ve got some catching up to do.

If you aren’t particularly limber, try adding sex dice to your routine instead. They come in all varieties, but the basic idea is universal: on each side of the two die there is either an action to perform (lick, suck, kiss, nibble, etc.) or a body part to which the act is to be performed (nipples, toes, genitals, neck, etc.) You just roll the dice and let Fate do the rest.

If neither of those do it for you (or you just want one last suggestion), try combining sex with one of life’s other pleasures: Pop Rocks. These feisty little sugar bombs add just the right amount of fun with little to no mess at all. The safest way to incorporate these is while kissing to enhance the feeling (and taste) of an already sweet and satisfying act.

Shop at Victoria's Secret

In addition to its standard stock of sexy attire, Victoria’s Secret has a special supply of Valentine’s goodies available that make affordable gifts for guys and gals. Try the Very Sexy edible body icing kit ($19.50) to sweetly seduce your partner, or pick up the Booty Parlor massage à trois kit ($32), which comes with lubricant and a variety of scented massage oils. You can find Victoria’s Secret at Oak Park Mall in Overland Park, West Ridge Mall in Topeka, or online at www.victoriassecret.com.

Listen to Loveline

Will having a threesome hurt your relationship? Can you get an STD if you have sex in a Jacuzzi? For answers to the sex and relationship questions you really wonder about, tune in to the radio show Loveline on 96.5 The Buzz FM. No question is too bizarre and no topic is taboo, which makes for some laugh- out-loud entertainment that’s actually useful, too.

The show is hosted by Stryker, a Los Angeles DJ, and Dr. Drew Pinsky, a physician and addiction medicine specialist who answers callers’ questions on everything from sex fetishes to substance abuse to what exactly caused those bumps down there. A few nights of Loveline a week will up your sex IQ, and you’ll never think of waffles, lightning or hibachi grills the same again. Loveline airs on The Buzz from 10 p.m. to 12 a.m., Sunday through Thursday, and you can also listen online at www.965thebuzz.com.

 

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