Morning Brew: The woes of regret

It can be found anywhere this time of year. As bitter as truck stop coffee, it follows us year-round only to grow in prominence when the air turns warm and the sun shines longer.

Regret. One of the ultimate emotions shared by us all. Students from all corners of the globe comprise the campus’ populace but we all live in the same world of “What if … ”

Athletic endeavors certainly qualify. They may even be the most prevalent among said thoughts.

When the fall fades and winter produces snow and ice, you can ball up your excuses into a nice, big snowman and return inside for cocoa and cookies. Spring and summer offer no such escape.

The shoes you tie tightly to your feet remind you of when you used to wear them to rugby practice. If only I would have stuck with it. I know I had to quit because of nightly Spanish homework, but I got a C in that damn class anyway.

Running, with the Red Hot Chili Peppers in your ears, until you’re short of breath reminds you of how you felt flying up the field on a fast break for your high school lacrosse team. Quick, time to get back on defense. If only I would have worked harder. If only I would have partied less and practiced more.

In all of this lies one of life’s greatest gifts: the chance to do it all again. Though it may not appear so, it is there. Whether it’s the perspective needed when confronted with choices capable of producing regretful consequences or actually the chance to do it again.

Three years removed from last playing an organized lacrosse game, I took the field Saturday with more than a dozen fellow alums to play against the team’s current squad in the inaugural alumni game to raise money for a fallen friend.

In concert with this was the kickoff of numerous acts of defiance against time — backyard games or organized leagues to keep active — or the taking up of new sports.

A good friend called and told me of his return to the soccer field that same weekend. This paper organized its annual softball game between the news and ad desks. Perhaps you have a story or two as well.

Each time we watch a college sports broadcast on TV, we are reminded that the majority of college athletes go pro in something other than sports. Even more high school athletes don’t continue their careers at the college level.

The number of intramural and club sports on campus, coupled with our own free will to get together with friends and toss a ball of choice around signifies that we never have to let go. Besides, it lessens the chance of becoming that fat, balding, overbearing dad at little league games.

And so when the clock ran out Sunday and I was exhausted and sore, all I could think was: “I’ve got to do this more often.”

— — Edited by Jesse Trimble

 

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