Book review: Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man

Thursday, November 19, 2009

No one knows better than a college girl how tough it is to find that perfect guy, the one who knows the meaning of respect and how to kiss like a god. Let’s face it: college women have a lot of standards, and now there is a book that tells just how to find the ultimate guy and keep him in your back pocket.

Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man, by comedian Steve Harvey, is the perfect read for all ladies looking for a keeper. The genius of the book is that it gives smart advice to women from the perspective of men. Harvey may belong to an older generation, but his insight into how men work is all too applicable to dating life today.

Harvey touches on topics such as why men cheat, how to solicit respect from men, and many other quick answers to the questions you’ve always wanted to ask. These are no doubt topics ladies either need to hear or have always been curious about.

The best thing about Harvey writing this book is that he uses his humor and personality to deliver advice in a way only a comedian can do.

Though the book is full of funny anecdotes from Harvey’s radio show and personal experiences, one thing is apparent — he is a comedian and not a writer. The writing is not exactly sophisticated, but the message is clear (and helpful).

After reading this book, not only will you have higher chances of getting a date, you may just be able to find a keeper.

Three out of four stars.

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