Q. Is it OK to have sex with a woman while she’s menstruating? Can I get her pregnant?

A. While some might find it taboo or gross, there are no definite reasons why you can’t have sex with a woman during her period. I know guys that absolutely love sleeping with women on their period, but I’m always amazed at the number of guys that say they would never do it. As long as you don’t mind the sight of a little blood, both of you will be fine. Period pains and menstrual cramps can certainly hurt a woman’s libido, but having an orgasm can help relieve these pains.

 As far as your second question goes, getting a woman pregnant during her period is a possibility, but the chances are slim. Normally during her period, no viable egg would be available to fertilize. However, it is possible that a woman might happen to ovulate off schedule and near the time of menstruation. It would be rare to get a woman pregnant during her period, but I’m not saying that you have my permission to go condom-free.

 In summary, it is perfectly OK to have sex with a willing participant while she is menstruating. While it has the chance to be a tad messy, it is still very enjoyable. -Mike Anderson

A. Why do most men crave anal sex, yet cringe at the thought of penetrating a menstruating vagina? How is a dry, bacteria-ridden, fragile hole appealing? With the natural lubricant of the menstrual blood, I would argue the soft, warm, overly moist hug of a menstruating vagina is far more delightful and attractive.

 A few things to remember when participating in this monthly experience:

1) Remember to always use a condom if this red-hot sex is with someone other than a STI-free, monogamous partner.

2) Yes, you can make a baby during that time of the month. Stress and hormones can affect the menstrual cycle. Therefore, you can ovulate during your period. If ovulation occurs during menstruation and you have unprotected sex, you have a strong chance of getting pregnant.

3) Safeguard against unplanned pregnancies with hormonal (the pill, IUD, etc.) or non-hormonal (condoms, cervical caps, sponges, etc.) birth control.

4) If you’re worried about the mess, get over it. The total amount of blood loss during menstruation is approximately two tablespoons. Be sure to place a dark towel down on the bed and make the clean up seductive. Rather than letting your guy rush to the bathroom, have a warm wash cloth ready. Slowly and gently wipe him off while he lays in post-coital satisfaction.

 If you enjoy sex, then enjoy sex every day of the month.-Michelle MacBain