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Five questions

You vs. them

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How we met

A pity date is the best kind of date

A change of tune

I wouldn’t let one teacher silence my singing voice

When breaking up, it’s not in the note

The dos and don'ts of breaking the bond with that no-longer-special-someone: Facebook messages, notes and vandalism.

Five questions

You vs. them

Five questions

You vs. them

How we met

Music to blame

The green-eyed relationship killer

How to resolve jealousy in relationships

Belting out some noise

Exploding engines and a wall of noise

Photos

James Milin, Chicago sophomore, and Luke Brummer, Wichita sophomore, race each other while attached to elastic bands Tuesday afternoon on the Stauffer-Flint lawn as a part of the Earth Day celebration hosted by SUA.

Photo by Jessie Fetterling
James Milin, Chicago sophomore, and Luke Brummer, Wichita sophomore, race each other while attached to elastic bands Tuesday afternoon on the Stauffer-Flint lawn as a part of the Earth Day celebration hosted by SUA.

Mary Sheldon, Overland Park freshman, rises above her fellow dancers in a rehearsal Wednesday night at the Lied Center. The dance called the Capriccio is showcased in the University Dance Company's "A Tribute to KU Dance Legend Elizabeth Serbon," which is showing April 17-18.

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Mary Sheldon, Overland Park freshman, rises above her fellow dancers in a rehearsal Wednesday night at the Lied Center.  The dance called the Capriccio is showcased in the University Dance Company's

Eric Hyde, Lawrence sophomore, Mitchell Jones, Burlington sophomore, and Adam Wood, Lawrence junior, anticipate the election results for student senate Tuesday night at Vice President nominee, Eric Hyde's, house. All three were part of the Students for Liberty group promoting energy preservation on campus.

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Eric Hyde, Lawrence sophomore, Mitchell Jones, Burlington sophomore, and Adam Wood, Lawrence junior, anticipate the election results for student senate Tuesday night at Vice President nominee, Eric Hyde's, house.  All three were part of the Students for Liberty group promoting energy preservation on campus.

Jennifer Schmidt, Dole fellow, interviewed Jenny Sanford, First Lady of South Carolina, about her role as a first spouse at the Dole Institute Thursday night. Sanford discussed the responsibilities behind raising four children and helping with her husband's campaign.

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Jennifer Schmidt, Dole fellow, interviewed Jenny Sanford, First Lady of South Carolina, about her role as a first spouse at the Dole Institute Thursday night.  Sanford discussed the responsibilities behind raising four children and helping with her husband's campaign.

Tim Lyons, Lawrence senior, has participated in local open mic nights with his band L.I.E. Lyons said they have performed in Lawrence clubs such as the Bottleneck as well as several venues in Kansas City and Manhattan. Lyons is the lead guitarist and vocalist for L.I.E. and can be found online at www.myspace.com/liemusic.

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Tim Lyons, Lawrence senior, has participated in local open mic nights with his band L.I.E.  Lyons said they have performed in Lawrence clubs such as the Bottleneck as well as several venues in Kansas City and Manhattan.  Lyons is the lead guitarist and vocalist for L.I.E. and can be found online at www.myspace.com/liemusic.

Emily Travis, Overland Park freshman, dressed in a dog suit, hugs Rebecca Keene, Chicago, Ill. freshman, on Wescoe Beach Tuesday afternoon. Travis gave out high-fives and hugs to students to promote Afterdark at the Lied Center Wednesday night. Afterdark is a nationwide movement designed to give students hope and find a new direction.

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Emily Travis, Overland Park freshman, dressed in a dog suit, hugs Rebecca Keene, Chicago, Ill. freshman, on Wescoe Beach Tuesday afternoon. Travis gave out high-fives and hugs to students to promote Afterdark at the Lied Center Wednesday night.  Afterdark is a nationwide movement designed to give students hope and find a new direction.

Jeff Briscoe, New Orleans, La. senior, learns about pole-dancing from Natalie Smith, instructor and owner of Pole Worx in Kansas City.

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Jeff Briscoe, New Orleans, La. senior, learns about pole-dancing from Natalie Smith, instructor and owner of Pole Worx in Kansas City.

Jeff Briscoe, New Orleans, La. senior, hangs upside down while learning about pole-dancing at Pole Worx in Kansas City.

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Jeff Briscoe, New Orleans, La. senior, hangs upside down while learning about pole-dancing at Pole Worx in Kansas City.

Brylie Oxley, Lawrence, holds signs for the KU Watch protest against the war in Iraq Tuesday afternoon in front of Stauffer-Flint. KU Watch encourages students' awareness about the fundings that the University receives from the Department of Defense.

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Brylie Oxley, Lawrence, holds signs for the KU Watch protest against the war in Iraq Tuesday afternoon in front of Stauffer-Flint. KU Watch encourages students' awareness about the fundings that the University receives from the Department of Defense.

The KJHK shack, located on 11th St., is an old building that no longer adequately fits the needs for the student radio station. The building barely has space for the numerous amounts of CDs and Albums that the station owns and is not handicap accessible.

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The KJHK shack, located on 11th St., is an old building that no longer adequately fits the needs for the student radio station. The building barely has space for the numerous amounts of CDs and Albums that the station owns and is not handicap accessible.

The University has given KJHK until fall 2009 to relocate their station because the studio does not meet building codes. The station is asking Student Senate to contribute $75,000 to the proposed $245,200 remodel project in the Kansas Union. The money would come from the Student Senate Reserve Account, which has nearly $360,000.

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The University has given KJHK until fall 2009 to relocate their station because the studio does not meet building codes. The station is asking Student Senate to contribute $75,000 to the proposed $245,200 remodel project in the Kansas Union. The money would come from the Student Senate Reserve Account, which has nearly $360,000.

Darrell Arthur, sophomore forward, shoots against Kevin Rogers, Baylor forward, Saturday night at Allen Fieldhouse. Arthur scored 23 of the 100 points that the Jayhawks made to win the game.

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Darrell Arthur, sophomore forward, shoots against Kevin Rogers, Baylor forward, Saturday night at Allen Fieldhouse.  Arthur scored 23 of the 100 points that the Jayhawks made to win the game.

Freshman Center Krysten Boogard fights for the shot against Creighton at Allen Fieldhouse on Nov. 27. The Jayhawks beat the Bluejays 91-56.

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Freshman Center Krysten Boogard fights for the shot against Creighton at Allen Fieldhouse on Nov. 27.  The Jayhawks beat the Bluejays 91-56.

Sophomore guard LaChelda Jacobs gets ready to shoot against K-State forward Marlies Gipson. Jacobs scored 14 of the 50 points that the Jayhawks made at Allen Fieldhouse Wednesday night.

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Sophomore guard LaChelda Jacobs gets ready to shoot against K-State forward Marlies Gipson.  Jacobs scored 14 of the 50 points that the Jayhawks made at Allen Fieldhouse Wednesday night.

Senior forward Jamie Boyd, senior forward Taylor McIntosh, sophomore guard Sade Morris, sophomore guard LaChelda Jacobs, and sophomore forward and guard Danielle McCray watch their pre-game video reel before they play their last game at Allen Fieldhouse for the season Wednesday night. Seniors Boyd and McIntosh were honored after the game for their four years of dedication to the team.

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Senior forward Jamie Boyd, senior forward Taylor McIntosh, sophomore guard Sade Morris, sophomore guard LaChelda Jacobs, and sophomore forward and guard Danielle McCray watch their pre-game video reel before they play their last game at Allen Fieldhouse for the season Wednesday night.  Seniors Boyd and McIntosh were honored after the game for their four years of dedication to the team.

Sophomore guard LaChelda Jacobs fights for the shot against the Wildcats Wednesday night at Allen Fieldhouse. The Jayhawks lost 61-50.

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Sophomore guard LaChelda Jacobs fights for the shot against the Wildcats Wednesday night at Allen Fieldhouse.  The Jayhawks lost 61-50.

Sophomore guard Danielle McCray rushes to the basket against K-State forward Ashley Sweat Wednesday night at Allen Fieldhouse. McCray played for a total of 32 minutes of the game and scored 17 points.

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Sophomore guard Danielle McCray rushes to the basket against K-State forward Ashley Sweat Wednesday night at Allen Fieldhouse.  McCray played for a total of 32 minutes of the game and scored 17 points.

Sophomore guard Sade Morris shoots against K-State forward Marlies Gipson at Allen Fieldhouse Wednesday night. The Wildcats beat the Jayhawks 61-50.

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Sophomore guard Sade Morris shoots against K-State forward Marlies Gipson at Allen Fieldhouse Wednesday night.  The Wildcats beat the Jayhawks 61-50.

Sophomore forward and guard Danielle McCray keeps the ball from K-State guards Kimberly Dietz, left, and Shalee Lehning, right. McCray scored 17 of the 50 points that the Jayhawks scored against the Wildcats at Allen Fieldhouse Wednesday night. The Wildcats beat the Jayhawks 61-50.

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Sophomore forward and guard Danielle McCray keeps the ball from K-State guards Kimberly Dietz, left, and Shalee Lehning, right. McCray scored 17 of the 50 points that the Jayhawks scored against the Wildcats at Allen Fieldhouse Wednesday night.  The Wildcats beat the Jayhawks 61-50.

Kaylin Hertel, Leawood, Kan., junior, melts metal to use for her jewelry design class in the Art and Design building. Hertel plans to pursue a career in fashion jewelry after she graduates.

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Kaylin Hertel, Leawood, Kan., junior, melts metal to use for her jewelry design class in the Art and Design building. Hertel plans to pursue a career in fashion jewelry after she graduates.

Erica Voetsch, Leawood, Kan. junior, sells her jewelry at a Valentine's Day jewelry sale in the Art and Design building on Feb. 13. Voetsch has sold her jewelry in a couple of shows now.

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Erica Voetsch, Leawood, Kan. junior, sells her jewelry at a Valentine's Day jewelry sale in the Art and Design building on Feb. 13.  Voetsch has sold her jewelry in a couple of shows now.

Jordan Jacobson, Wamego, Kan. freshman, observes the faculty art on display in the Art and Design building Tuesday afternoon. The Art Department Faculty Exhibition continues this week through Friday.

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Jordan Jacobson, Wamego, Kan. freshman, observes the faculty art on display in the Art and Design building Tuesday afternoon.  The Art Department Faculty Exhibition continues this week through Friday.

Lindsay Major, Chicago, Ill. senior, practices yoga with Yoga Club in the Burge Union Tuesday night. Yoga Club offers free yoga every Tuesday for students that are interested.

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Lindsay Major, Chicago, Ill. senior, practices yoga with Yoga Club in the Burge Union Tuesday night.  Yoga Club offers free yoga every Tuesday for students that are interested.

Nate Mass, Leawood, Kan. junior, practices yoga in the Burge Union Tuesday night. The Yoga Club meets every Tuesday and offers an opportunity for people that are interested to come and do yoga for free.

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Nate Mass, Leawood, Kan. junior, practices yoga in the Burge Union Tuesday night.  The Yoga Club meets every Tuesday and offers an opportunity for people that are interested to come and do yoga for free.

Will Stebbins, Bureau Chief for the Americas Al Jazeera English, spoke Tuesday afternoon in Stauffer-Flint. He discussed different political issues and the way to approach them in the Journalism profession.

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Will Stebbins, Bureau Chief for the Americas Al Jazeera English, spoke Tuesday afternoon in Stauffer-Flint.  He discussed different political issues and the way to approach them in the Journalism profession.

Sean McDonald, Shawnee, Kan. senior, Maggie Long, Overland Park, Kan. senior, and Jennifer Schmidt, Overland Park, Kan. senior, applaud the half-time show at the Kansas vs. Baylor game Saturday night at Allen Fieldhouse. Many students wear blue to the games, but some still wear red to support the Jayhawks.

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Sean McDonald, Shawnee, Kan. senior, Maggie Long, Overland Park, Kan. senior, and Jennifer Schmidt, Overland Park, Kan. senior, applaud the half-time show at the Kansas vs. Baylor game Saturday night at Allen Fieldhouse.  Many students wear blue to the games, but some still wear red to support the Jayhawks.

Tucker Allrad, Salina, Kan. freshman, plays the piano in between classes in the Kansas Union Tuesday afternoon. During lunchtime, among studying students, Allrad enjoyed a relaxing moment on the Grand Piano.

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Tucker Allrad, Salina, Kan. freshman, plays the piano in between classes in the Kansas Union Tuesday afternoon.  During lunchtime, among studying students, Allrad enjoyed a relaxing moment on the Grand Piano.

Britt Herman, Quincey, Ill. Freshman, faces the cold, snowy weather Tuesday morning outside of the Kansas Union. Monday, the temperature reached a high of 60 degrees, and it changed drastically Tuesday when the high was only 14 degrees.

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Britt Herman, Quincey, Ill. Freshman, faces the cold, snowy weather Tuesday morning outside of the Kansas Union.  Monday, the temperature reached a high of 60 degrees, and it changed drastically Tuesday when the high was only 14 degrees.

Blake Peterson recently got hired by the University as a professor in the Department of Medicinal Cemistry to do cancer research. A lot of his research involves discoveries in novel drug delivery.

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Blake Peterson recently got hired by the University as a professor in the Department of Medicinal Cemistry to do cancer research.  A lot of his research involves discoveries in novel drug delivery.

Bassem Chahine, Lawrence senior, and Hazem Chahine, Lawrence senior both smoke out of a hookah at the Hookah House Monday night. The two owners of the Hookah House recently found out that the Hookah House can stay open, although their shop will not sell hookahs or hookah accessories any more.

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Bassem Chahine, Lawrence senior, and Hazem Chahine, Lawrence senior both smoke out of a hookah at the Hookah House Monday night.  The two owners of the Hookah House recently found out that the Hookah House can stay open, although their shop will not sell hookahs or hookah accessories any more.

John Elizalde rings bells for the Salvation Army outside of Wal-Mart Wednesday afternoon. The Salvation Army offers different charitable programs and services around the world.

Photo by Jessie Fetterling
John Elizalde rings bells for the Salvation Army outside of Wal-Mart Wednesday afternoon.  The Salvation Army offers different charitable programs and services around the world.

The Ecumenical Christian Ministry board decided not to sell the building to the developers who want to build the Oread Inn. The ministry, located at 12th and Oread Streets, is currently hosting the Lawrence Fair Trade Holiday Market thru Thursday.

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The Ecumenical Christian Ministry board decided not to sell the building to the developers who want to build the Oread Inn.  The ministry, located at 12th and Oread Streets, is currently hosting the Lawrence Fair Trade Holiday Market thru Thursday.

Jeffrey Sears, Overland Park, Kan. junior, plays the lead role, Harold Hill, in the dress rehearsal of the musical "The Music Man" Monday night in the Crafton-Preyer Theatre. Opening night of the musical is this Thursday, Nov. 9.

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Jeffrey Sears, Overland Park, Kan. junior, plays the lead role, Harold Hill, in the dress rehearsal of the musical

Students walk into Mrs. E's Dining Hall for dinner Tuesday evening. Someone fired gun shots into the back window of the building sometime Saturday night.

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Students walk into Mrs. E's Dining Hall for dinner Tuesday evening. Someone fired gun shots into the back window of the building sometime Saturday night.

Chris Eelacruz, Coffeeville, Kan. senior, and Christopher Reine, Kansas City, Mo. senior, discuss their plans for the new chapter of the NAACP that they recently started at KU Tuesday evening in the Multicultural Resource Center. Both students look forward to promoting the association at the school in the upcoming semester.

Photo by Jessie Fetterling
Chris Eelacruz, Coffeeville, Kan. senior, and Christopher Reine, Kansas City, Mo. senior, discuss their plans for the new chapter of the NAACP that they recently started at KU Tuesday evening in the Multicultural Resource Center.  Both students look forward to promoting the association at the school in the upcoming semester.

University Architect, Warren Corman, gives Representative Nancy Boyda a tour of the new $20 million addition to the Structural Biology Center. Boyda, recently, helped get $425,000 in federal funding for research at the KU School of Pharmacy.

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University Architect, Warren Corman, gives Representative Nancy Boyda a tour of the new $20 million addition to the Structural Biology Center.  Boyda, recently, helped get $425,000 in federal funding for research at the KU School of Pharmacy.

University Architect, Warren Corman, gives Representative Nancy Boyda a tour of the new $20 million addition to the Structural Biology Center. Boyda, recently, helped get $425,000 in federal funding for research at the KU School of Pharmacy.

Photo by Jessie Fetterling
University Architect, Warren Corman, gives Representative Nancy Boyda a tour of the new $20 million addition to the Structural Biology Center.  Boyda, recently, helped get $425,000 in federal funding for research at the KU School of Pharmacy.

Ashley Crawl, Topeka senior, travelled to India last semester for six months.

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Ashley Crawl, Topeka senior, travelled to India last semester for six months.

Jena Correa, Macapa, Brazil senior, gives students free Brazilian dance lessons as a part of Brazilian week, hosted by the Brazilian Student Association. Students gathered to learn more about the Brazilian culture Tuesday night in the Kansas Union Ballroom.

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Jena Correa, Macapa, Brazil senior, gives students free Brazilian dance lessons as a part of Brazilian week, hosted by the Brazilian Student Association.  Students gathered to learn more about the Brazilian culture Tuesday night in the Kansas Union Ballroom.

Chad Davis, junior, runs against Garry Novavong during a touch football game Monday night. The Fists of Fury and the SP Opt Fly were two of the teams that played in the tournament at Memorial Stadium.

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Chad Davis, junior, runs against Garry Novavong during a touch football game Monday night.  The Fists of Fury and the SP Opt Fly were two of the teams that played in the tournament at Memorial Stadium.

Joe's Bakery closes when the owners decided they weren't making enough money even after students came back to school this fall. The locally owned bakery located on 9th Street opened in 1952.

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Joe's Bakery closes when the owners decided they weren't making enough money even after students came back to school this fall.  The locally owned bakery located on 9th Street opened in 1952.

Sophmore Brenna Daldorph won the first ever Hall Center Scholarship.

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Sophmore Brenna Daldorph won the first ever Hall Center Scholarship.

Katy Clagett, Colorado Springs freshman, and Michael Wade Smith, Goodland freshman, chalk for freshman elections in front of the Kansas Union Monday evening. Clagett and Smith are running for seats in the freshman Senate. There are five seats available. Monday’s freshman election orientation meeting marked the official start of freshman elections.

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Katy Clagett, Colorado Springs freshman, and Michael Wade Smith, Goodland freshman, chalk for freshman elections in front of the Kansas Union Monday evening. Clagett and Smith are running for seats in the freshman Senate. There are five seats available. Monday’s freshman election orientation meeting marked the official start of freshman elections.

Boulder, Colo. Junior Nick Allen buys school supplies at the Jayhawk Bookstore Sunday afternoon. The bookstores increase security precautions during the first few weeks of school.

Photo by Jessie Fetterling
Boulder, Colo. Junior Nick Allen buys school supplies at the Jayhawk Bookstore Sunday afternoon.  The bookstores increase security precautions during the first few weeks of school.
Jessie Fetterling

Photographer, Jayplay Writer

Jessie is a senior from Leawood. She has always been interested in photography and photojournalism. Last semester, she was a photographer for The Kansan and will continue to take pictures this semester along with Jayplay writing and photo imaging. She'll graduate this spring with a degree in journalism and English.

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